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Коли трамвай мовчить

Лариса вже тиждень просить свою восьмирічну доньку, щоб на дитячому майданчику вона говорила польською. А все тому, що сусідка одного разу відчинила вікно й вигукнула: «Замовкніть, українські байстрюки!» 

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Варшава. Теплий серпневий день. Марина їде з трирічним Мироном трамваєм до зоопарку. Хлопчик сидить у мами на колінах, жує M&M’s і ставить мільйон питань. Вони розмовляють українською. Хоча Марина живе в Польщі вже 10 років, має чоловіка-поляка й чудово володіє польською, із сином вона часто спілкується рідною мовою. Вона хоче, щоб Мирон добре знав мову матері й міг вільно спілкуватися з дідусем, бабусею й іншими родичами, які живуть в Україні.  

Раптом цукерка падає на підлогу. Марина нахиляється, щоб підняти її, але в цей момент немолоде подружжя, яке стоїть поруч, шипить:  

— Приїхали сюди та ще й смітять у трамваях! Хай їде до себе й там смітить!  

Увесь трамвай мовчить. Марина тремтячими руками хапає Мирона й виходить на найближчій зупинці. Вона намагається не плакати, щоб не налякати сина, але той і так уже переляканий.  

Лариса, ще одна моя знайома, вже тиждень просить свою восьмирічну доньку, щоб на дитячому майданчику вона говорила польською. А все тому, що сусідка одного разу відчинила вікно й вигукнула: «Замовкніть, українські байстрюки!». 

Її старша п’ятнадцятирічна донька майже перестала виходити з дому — боїться, що на неї можуть напасти за те, що вона українка. Навіть польською боїться говорити, адже думає, що кожен почує її акцент.  

Це лише дві з багатьох історій, які трапилися з моїми українськими друзями в останні місяці.  

Я пам’ятаю Ларису з перших днів війни. Вона приїхала до Польщі, щоб її діти не росли під звуки сирен та в бомбосховищах. Підтримка, яку вона отримала від незнайомих людей, допомогла їй пережити найстрашніший час і повірити, що є надія на краще майбутнє. Літнє подружжя, у якого вона оселилася, ставилося до неї, як до рідної доньки. Коли через кілька місяців вона знайшла роботу й зняла окреме помешкання, вся вулиця допомагала його облаштовувати. У сусідському чаті вони домовлялися, хто що може принести. Допомогли перефарбувати стіни й повністю облаштували житло ті, хто ще пів року тому були для неї абсолютно чужими. На перші Різдвяні свята вони майже сварилися, у кого саме Лариса має провести Святвечір. Тож, щоб було справедливо, вона відвідала, здається, три родини, а на інші свята пішла в гості до інших.  

Це була Польща моєї мрії: гостинна, солідарна, порядна.  

Чимало поляків і досі творять таку Польщу — вони й надалі допомагають, їздять в Україну з гуманітаркою.  

Я не вірю, що ті, хто в 2022 році відчиняв свої домівки, сьогодні кричали б на матір з дитиною в трамваї. Зараз голос мають інші — ті, хто раніше мовчав, а тепер набрався сміливості завдяки популістським гаслам політиків

У останній президентській кампанії антиукраїнські та антиміграційні карти розігрувалися безсоромно. Легко поділити: ми й вони. Легко переконати, що все погане — це «вони», і що якщо їх позбутися, нам стане краще.  

Але ж ми знаємо з історії, до чого призводить пошук ворога у сусіда. І як швидко слова можуть перерости у дії.  

Уряд мовчить. Не реагує. Як люди в трамваї. На що він чекає? На бойовиків? На погроми?  

«Я вважаю, що людство здатне на найжахливіші речі, і що ця здатність є вродженою. А механізмом розвитку й виживання є постійна боротьба із цією схильністю», — каже Агнешка Голланд у інтерв’ю «Gazeta Wyborcza».  

Чимало моїх польських знайомих питають мене, чи буде в Польщі війна. Але ж я зовсім не експертка. Можливо, вони питають, тому що бачать, що я продовжую займатися Україною, тоді як більшість вже втомилася.  

А може, просто останнім часом усі ставлять собі це питання.  

Сьогодні в Польщі триває війна іншого типу. Без танків, але не менш небезпечна. Російська пропаганда працює ефективно: сіє фейки, маніпулює, розпалює ненависть. Хтось побачив «ролик» на TikTok і вірить без тіні сумніву. Провокації працюють. Достатньо, щоб на концерті хтось підставний підняв прапор УПА — і ось вже нові «захисники» можуть викрикнути українці в обличчя, що вона «руська к..ва» або «бандерівка».  

Праві політики цинічно це підживлюють. А ліберально-демократичний табір влади? Він не веде широкомасштабної боротьби з дезінформацією. Мовчить. Дозволяє, щоб у публічному просторі панували коричневі виступи Брауна чи Бонкевича.  

Невже знову все має взяти на себе громадянське суспільство, як у лютому 2022?  

Так, надія лише в нас — знову згадаю слова Агнешки Голланд. Це велика відповідальність у часи, коли здається, що надії вже ніде немає. Бо, як додає словенський філософ Славой Жижек: «Ми вже не можемо мріяти про кращий світ, а лише про виживання».  

Так важко мріяти про краще, коли бачиш, як американські солдати на колінах розстеляють червоний килим перед воєнним злочинцем. Так сьогодні виглядають цінності західного світу, до якого вже понад три роки прагне приєднатися Україна.  

Не нормалізуймо зло. Не вдаваймо, що не бачимо. Відкриваймо рота у трамваї, на зупинці, у магазині. Не даймо себе перекричати екстремістам. Бо якщо не ми, то хто?  

Марині й Ларисі не потрібні наші гучні декларації чи політичні фрази. Їм потрібно, щоб хтось у трамваї сказав: «Годі!», щоб хтось на дитячому майданчику посміхнувся їхнім дітям

Їм потрібна звичайна порядність, яка коштує дешевше за квиток до зоопарку.  

Якщо ми не зможемо її показати, то війна, від якої вони втекли, дійде до нас швидше, ніж ми думаємо.

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and I did not speak out—because I was not a trade unionist.

Then they came for the Jews,

and I did not speak out—because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me".

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The first and foremost is the experienced political strategist Susie Wiles. Aged 68, she currently holds the position of Chief of Staff at the White House and controls access to the president. It was she who insisted that technology billionaire Elon Musk should not be granted a private office in the White House. Otherwise, he would never leave the Oval Office.

Susie Wiles has been by Trump’s side for many years. Photo: Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images/AFP/East News

Susie began her career in political PR in 1979. Coincidentally, her first job was at the office of Jack Kemp - a Republican and, crucially, also a star of American football and a teammate of Susie’s father on the New York Giants. This role became a springboard for the young professional into the world of high-level politics - by 1980, she had already joined the presidential campaign of the new Republican star Ronald Reagan. In fact, it was on Wiles’s advice that Trump regularly quoted this great American and even reworked his political slogan to suit his own agenda.

After working on the presidential campaigns of George W. Bush and Mitt Romney, Wiles decided to monetise her expertise and earn wealth from commercial clients. This enterprising lady founded consultancy and lobbying firms, which made her not only a successful political consultant but also a wealthy one. In her best years, she had more than 40 clients, including entire countries such as Qatar and Nigeria, as well as tobacco giants. Elon Musk’s SpaceX and telecommunications monopolist AT&T also sought Wiles’s assistance.

In 2015, while enjoying the sunshine and palm trees of Florida, Donald Trump entertained an intriguing idea - to run for President of the United States. He therefore hired the successful lobbyist and political strategist - the two appreciated each other and began to work together.

Trump calls her «ice baby» and repeated the nickname during his speech at his Mar-a-Lago estate after it became clear he had won the election. The media, however, upgraded this «ice baby» to a more mature «Ice Queen»

Wiles’s colleagues highlight her strengths as a strategist. She brought the much-needed order to Trump’s campaign, managed its narrative (to the extent possible with Trump himself), and demonstrated her outstanding organisational skills. One of Wiles’s colleagues even described her as Trump’s longest-serving adviser, present at all his key meetings. Within the president’s circle, it is said that he frequently includes her in phone calls concerning political matters.

As often happens, the media sometimes receives leaks, such as about a secret Signal chat, where Wiles showed her firm character and hinted at the dismissal of National Security Adviser Mike Waltz.

Regarding her management style, in what is perhaps her only interview since her appointment, she told Axios:

«I do not welcome people who want to operate solo or become stars. My team and I will not tolerate backstabbing, inappropriate speculations or intrigue».

At one point, Wiles successfully dealt with Florida Governor Ron DeSantis, who challenged Trump in the primaries and even demanded that Wiles be dismissed from the campaign. When he dropped out of the race in January 2024, Wiles simply posted on social media: «Bye-bye».

The 2024 election campaign, which Wiles led alongside political consulting veteran Chris LaCivita, was successful and passed without major scandals

Trump followed advice, remained calm and used social media less frequently. At the same time, he appeared on young podcasters’ shows and danced for TikTok, which helped attract new voters.

Establishing contact with Susie Wiles is essential if one wishes to access the very brain of the President of the United States. Moreover, she controls the movements of all Trump’s friends and acquaintances within the White House, which is precisely why the musician Kid Rock appears there from time to time, but golf buddies are seen less often.

Another key woman who helped make Trump president twice is the charismatic Christian preacher Paula White. She recently became head of the newly established Office of Faith Affairs, which, among other things, is tasked with promoting religious freedom not only nationally but also internationally. During Trump’s first term, Paula White also worked on religious matters, though on a more modest scale.

The charismatic Paula White is always at the side of the President of the United States. Photo: Brynn Anderson/Associated Press/East News

The attractive blonde has known the Trump family since 2001. She is a star of Christian television, with her sermons filling stadiums and concert venues. Clearly, at some point, Trump heard Paula White working with an audience, became inspired by her prosperity theology - according to which material success is a sign of divine grace - and decided that such faith suited him.

If one closely observes the pastor’s speeches, it becomes evident that Trump copied her manner of speaking and gesticulation

The trust in White is so great that during his first term, she served as chair of the Evangelical Advisory Board for Trump’s 2016 campaign, and she became the first female clergy member to deliver a prayer at the inauguration on January 20th 2017.

Pastor White supported Trump in the 2020 presidential race, delivering a prayer at his campaign launch event. Similarly, during the 2024 election campaign, she was actively involved in the future president’s team. This accounts for the high support among the Christian electorate.

Paula White is known for her staunch support of Israel and has even appeared on lists such as «The 50 Best Christian Allies of Israel»

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The 59-year-old former head of the Florida state prosecutor’s office has pledged to maintain the independence of the Department of Justice and «not involve politics in its operations» - amid concerns that Trump intends to take control of the agency and exact revenge on those who led investigations against him and his supporters regarding the refusal to recognise the election results and the storming of the Capitol in 2021.

Interestingly, Bondi was not the president’s first choice for the post of Attorney General. Initially, Trump intended to assign the role to Matt Gaetz. However, before the appointment, the United States Congressional Ethics Committee discovered that Gaetz had spent over 90 thousand dollars making payments to 12 women, a significant number of whom were allegedly linked to services involving underage prostitution and drug use.

Ironically, during Trump’s first presidential term, Pam Bondi chaired the commission on the abuse of narcotic and opioid substances. Recently, the lawyer has been consulting for the America First Policy Institute - an organisation with considerable influence over the newly elected president’s political agenda.

On her first day as Attorney General of the United States, Pam Bondi decided to shut down the special unit tasked with seizing the assets of Russian oligarchs. Instead, the lawyer declared that the new enemy of the United States is the drug cartels

Nevertheless, Russian oligarchs certainly cannot expect the immediate return of their yachts. At the same time, Bondi did not state that the cases handled by the now-disbanded KleptoCapture unit would be closed. It is likely they will continue, although there will no longer be a dedicated team focusing exclusively on this activity. It is also possible that new cases will be launched.

Recently, Pam Bondi demonstrated her loyalty to her chief. She officially declared that it is unlikely criminal proceedings will be initiated over the transmission of sensitive military information via an unsecured Signal chat, in which Defence Secretary Pete Hegseth shared a plan for an airstrike on targets in Yemen.

The Attorney General intends to maintain Trump’s legal peace and protect him from the consequences of his past actions. Like the first two women, she belongs to Trump’s closest circle and is expected to remain with him until the end of his current term.

This project is co-financed by the Polish-American Freedom Foundation within the framework of the «Support Ukraine» programme implemented by the Education for Democracy Foundation

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